Enthusiastic.. Hopeful. Optimistic. While these generic adjectives are what I'd love you to feel while approaching online dating, they may not be the first ones that spring to mind. You may feel unsure and confused, which is natural when it comes to putting yourself out there in the online dating scene.

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Perhaps you just need support, guidance, and inspiration on your journey toward love. Or maybe your busy life is all consuming and you simply don't want another full-time job.

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Have no fear, I am here! To help you reframe this way of thinking and get you out there to take advantage of the online forum! I'll  help  you navigate the fascinating terrain of dating online with curiosity and optimism.

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 While I've been working in the world of online dating for over 18 years, I've honed a valuable skill set to make this a great experience for you. Maybe you're on the fence about taking the plunge or taking online dating seriously at all. Maybe you don't know where to begin, feel overwhelmed or completely out of the loop. My role is to get you in the loop in the best possible way. Not only can I help maximize your valuable time and effectiveness, but I can make the experience fun and rewarding. Everyone wants a pay off for their time and money. I help you conserve your energy, maximize your curiosity, and bring you closer to the love you want and deserve! 

The world of online dating is a fascinating place, full of possibilities to connect with others while learning about yourself and growing. It's a great tool to meet people, but there's no secret it has a reputation. It's not exactly the best reputation. The pitfalls of online dating are widely documented by the media, promoting a multitude of negative stories that threaten to dampen your enthusiasm and undermine your confidence in putting yourself out there. You may question if you have the right profile, photos, and approach to chatting with prospects. It's no wonder why online dating often nourishes more doubt and fear than curiosity and excitement. It doesn't immediately connote a go-to trustworthy tool for finding true love and a happily ever after.

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The thing is this: poor results will contribute to road blocks. When you randomly swipe or present a skeleton profile, you feed whatever insecurities you have about dating online and contribute to self sabotage. Maybe you've written your heart out in a profile but you're just not getting results. These are reasons why it's necessary to hire a professional--to help you get out of your own way.

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In order to avoid barriers to success, we must steer clear from the superficial and generic. I will help you avoid inauthentic impulses or ineffective efforts that will detract from a fruitful online dating journey. I will help attract people that suit you by curating information to reveal the true self.

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Not revealing the true self is a kind of defense mechanism and something most of us do-- even when we don't realize we're being defensive. So many of us fall into this trap because we don't know how to talk about ourselves in a way that attracts the right attention. Whether it's striking the wrong tone or just not offering the type of information that will serve you well, it's easy to approach online dating in a way that is not optimal, leaving you feeling overwhelmed by the process. 

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This is where I come in. I help you dig a bit deeper to attract the right person for you. This actually can be fun! When you engage in the process of self-discovery with me, not only will you get a great profile and a real shot at discovering the love of your life, but you will also gain insight about yourself and your true desires and needs. This active approach will change everything about the world of online dating for you. I'm here to help you understand how to get results while making the process fun and interesting. With over 15 years of experience writing profiles, I've learned that everyone gets a better result with expert help. 

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Here's how I can make your online dating experience more fun, empowering, and effective:

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I combine my writing skills with marketing strategies to help you enjoy dating online (yes, it's possible) and stand out from the crowd. Simple techniques---such as using specificity and humor---make a significant difference in effectively communicating your best assets.

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Truth is, it's tempting to rely on superficial information or negativity to get attention. But I promise that this is a waste of your valuable time!

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 I expedite the process for you and make it fun. My clients have better interactions, better dates, and even lasting love. Yes, I've helped people meet The One. This is how I know that generic adjectives and bullet points just don't cut it in the arena of competitive online dating. It's why you need a profile that asserts your true personality. It's imperative to set the right tone to stand out from the crowd and make a good impression.

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I take pride in making the process fun and painless. I'll gather information via phone/Zoom sessions and questionnaires, and I'll collaborate with you to discover the details that create a specific narrative that will help you achieve your goals. Inventing information is not my style. When we chat, I'll work with you to turn generic adjectives into specific springboards for a conversation. You're no longer someone who's "fun, smart, and loves to laugh." After all, I know you're much more interesting than a tagline. I'll dismiss the superficial and uncover the specifics because I want to encourage you to discuss and invest in a very important topic: you. 

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I'm Audra Feuer, and I hold an M.S. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. After years of writing professionally, I decided to combine my listening, counseling, and writing talents to help others achieve a better quality of life. I'm here to point you in the right direction and help you get results. Click here for examples of online dating profiles and LinkedIn profiles.